Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Surviving Black Friday Shopping

I have to be honest today.

As much as I am looking forward to hosting Thanksgiving dinner for the first time, I am looking forward to the day after Thanksgiving even more. I love to frolic with the bargain-happy masses, participating in Black Friday shopping.

What is Black Friday? Let me enlighten you...

The day after Thanksgiving is usually a huge day for retailers, who bend over backwards to get customers in their doors so they can make a profit, or be "in the black." Some people love to shop on Black Friday to save money on Christmas gifts. My friend Kelly saves hundreds of dollars on that 4th Friday in November. While that's certainly a plus for me, I tend to fall into a state of complete and utter bliss when I survey Target's finest wares and hear the cheery Christmas tunes they pump out over the loudspeakers. I'm a sucker for commercialism, it seems.

Here are a few tips to get you through the day if shopping isn't your favorite thing and you're braving Black Friday out of necessity. If you're a shopaholic like me, who doesn't mind the crowds, then these ideas will be icing on the cake to help you get through the day.

Have a Game Plan-
I like to keep a printed list of "who to buy for" in my wallet during the Christmas season.
(More on setting this up on another day) This is especially helpful on Black Friday, so you aren't caught on the accessories aisle in Macy's wondering, "Didn't I already buy Aunt Mabel a green sweater?"

I was trained by some of the finest shoppers the retail world has ever seen, but the thrifty side of Christmas shopping sometimes eludes me. My friend Kelly is an expert, and advised me to keep an eye on sales and coupons the week of Thanksgiving. You can do this by browsing your local stores' circulars (buy the Thursday paper!), or check out sites like www.blackfriday.info or blackfriday.net.

By comparing circulars to the sites' listings of store sales, you can make a good effort to find things on your list for excellent prices. I found some of the best deals on holiday decor at Target last year, and I plan to hit Hobby Lobby too.

Not into big box stores? That's okay...Wal-Mart sometimes gives me hives too. The area I live in has a beautiful "Olde Towne," with cute little boutiques lining the main street. Local shops like these have to compete with the big guys, and they often offer a free gift with purchase or some other incentive for shopping there on Black Friday. At best, you'll come away with some distinctive finds. At worst, you'll miss the mad rush on Barbie Jeeps on aisle 15 at Toys 'R Us.

What Not to Wear-
I love to dress in my cutest ensemble when I leave the house sans children (skinny jeans, anyone?), but Black Friday is not the day to debut your fabulous yet painfully uncomfortable purple ruffled booties...unless you want to pop Motrin all day. That said, you don't have to look like your three year old stylist dressed you. Wear something you know you'll be confident and comfortable in. Nice jeans, a sweater coat, a cute pair of flats, and some statement jewelry will go a long way.

Bring Reinforcements-
The conquest is so much more fun with friends or family. I loved shopping with my sister-in-law the year before last. We laughed at the frantic people standing outside Target at 5:30 a.m. while we sat in the toasty car and planned our morning. That being said, some members of the family are best left at home, and by "some members" I mean husbands and children. Unless you plan on doing some shopping for the kids with your significant other, have mercy on him and let him stay home and watch football while the kids trash the living room.

Listening to my children beg for crackers and Barbies and trying to keep them contained in a cart or stroller isn't really my thing, but if you're up for it don't say I didn't warn you. (This year, I plan on hitting a few stores before the rest of the family wakes up, and I may be forced to head back out with one or more children in tow if T won't sign on for kid duty. This could be disaster.)
(FYI, the blonde in the stroller is Natalie at age 2 1/2...I know what I'm talking about!)


Fuel Up-

Black Friday shopping is an excellent excuse to indulge in some Starbucks (may I suggest the Peppermint Mocha?) or a lunch out somewhere that does not have a playland outside the dining area. If stopping for coffee is not in the budget, bring a travel mug with a snack or two in your bag. Just be sure to keep your energy up so you don't pass out in the check-out lines. Speaking of check out lines...

Strategy-
You can be more efficient at check-out if one person stands in the never-ending line reading the latest issue of People and the other scans the shop for any last minute purchases. Take turns so nobody gets bored. Another time saver? Instead of driving aimlessly around town, fighting traffic, plan ahead of time which stores you'd like to visit. If your shopping list contains "must-purchase" gifts, you may want to decide ahead of time which stores to hunt in for those specific items. If you're familiar with the area, try to steer clear of heavily traveled roads and take short cuts!

With a little bit of planning, you can survive Black Friday Shopping, and maybe even enjoy yourself. (You can see how I did last year!) I'll wave if I see you sampling lotions in Bath and Body Works!

{Are you a Black Friday shopper? If not, do you do something special with the family that day?}


*This post was originally shared as a guest post over at Centsational Girl last Fall. I am so grateful to Kate for giving me my first shot at guest posting!*

*Thanks to today's Sponsor, Crafty Girls Workshop.
Crafty Girls Workshop


Monday, November 15, 2010

My "First" Thanksgiving and a Recipe Round-Up!

It's official! After some, ah, discussions and negotiations, T and I have decided to stay in the 'Burg for Thanksgiving this year. This is a feat I have managed only twice in our 9 years of marriage. This year, there is a little difference....

I get to host Thanksgiving dinner for the first time!

I am beyond excited, y'all. It's taken me a long time to get T to understand how important things like this are to me. I still don't think he quite *gets* it, but it means the world to me to be able to stay home this year and make some fun memories with our girls. T's extended family is wonderful, but I am glad to be able to do things my way this time!

My brother, Jamie, and his wife, "SuSu" (as my girls call her), will mostly likely be joining us. I'm hoping T's youngest brother and sister will also celebrate Thanksgiving at our house. I'm anticipating a nice, quiet day for the guys to watch football while the girls watch the parade and cook.

Speaking of cooking....I think SuSu has the turkey covered, and I have a great dressing recipe (that's stuffing in a pan for my "Yankee" readers). And that's pretty much where things end.

I was hoping you all could help me out, so I'm hosting a Thanksgiving Recipe Round-Up!

Link up your best Thanksgiving/family recipes, tips, and tricks. Anything related to Thanksgiving will do. You can link up an old post, or write something new. I'll leave the linky up until Friday and hopefully we'll have a nice little resource fair going on here.

If you'd like to use my button or a link back to me, that would be nice, but not required.
Serenity Now Thanksgiving Recipe Round Up


Join the party here!


Thanks for helping a Thanksgiving hostess newbie out!

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Come on Over!

The Weekend Bloggy Reading party is still going. Hope you'll come by and link up your best post of the week!

The Stitch Sense Designs Giveaway is open until Sunday at 10 pm (ET). Come enter to win one of Nadir's Crochet Coffee Cozies and a $15 Gift Certificate to the shop!

I hope your weekend is off to a great start! Stop by and leave me some comment love on the party post if you can!
Weekend Bloggy Reading


Friday, November 12, 2010

::Weekend Bloggy Reading:: Link Up!

{What's on your agenda this weekend?}

My sister and I are hosting a baby shower tomorrow for our sister-in-law, and I have another Blessings Unlimited party after that. There will be a massive cleaning overhaul of the T household today. Well, the downstairs, anyways. It's not my fault if a few Polly Pockets are casualties of my cleanly efforts.

Today is the fun day where I share a few of my favorite posts from around Blogland this week, and you get to link up the best post from your own blog this week.

All I ask is that you please include my party button within your post (code is below) OR a link back to me within your post. Don't make me be a meanie and delete your link from the party. Pretty please?

Here are some of this week's favorites:
sources listed below

~Kate shared some of her own simple sewing projects in her Learning to Sew post, and had a guest poster list a Top 10 Rules for Sewing Machines. A great read for anyone who is new to the hobby or thinking about trying it out.

~Love Melissa's Living room Makeover. Fabulous!

~Jennifer has a Crafting Group, and I think it's so cool.

~Jan featured a Twilight Parody that made me laugh.

~Holly's Homemade Pita Chips and Hummus made me drool a little bit.

~And me?
On Monday, I shared a Potato Soup Recipe to rival The Soup Nazi and on Tuesday I gave some tips on How to Rock the Skinny Jeans Look if you're not a size 2. My girls started their own Babysitters Club, and I'm currently taking reservations for their services (wink).

Hope you will stop by the Stitch Sense Designs Giveaway that's still going on! Nadir is offering a Crocheted Coffee Cozie and $15 Gift Certificate to one lucky reader.

Time to link up your best post of the week to share! Let me know if you need help getting your link to appear.

Here's the button code if you'd prefer to use that instead of a link-back:
Weekend Bloggy Reading




Party is open until 10 pm on Sunday night. Please let me know if you need help getting your link to appear on the list!

{Happy Weekend!}

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Stitch Sense Designs Giveaway

After blabbing on about How to Rock the Skinny Jeans Look in part by choosing the right accessories, it seemed only fitting to share one of my newest sponsors with you today. But let's be honest....

If you're going to accessorize your outfit, shouldn't your coffee be accessorized too?!

I'm excited to introduce you today to Stitch Sense Designs, a new Etsy shop full of fun creations by my friend Nadir.

Nadir is offering a special Giveaway today, so stick with me!

Nadir became "hooked for life" on crochet when she was in the sixth grade! She taught herself the ins and outs from a how-to book stolen from her older sister. After years of creating gifts for friends and family members, Nadir was encouraged to open her own Etsy shop when requests for her crochet and jewelry items  made her realize she could have a real business on her hands.

Because crochet has become her "sixth sense," Nadir opened Stitch Sense Designs in August and revamped her blog to reflect her new venture. The blog focuses on little glimpses into her life, and her shop includes baby items, winter accessories, jewelry, and gifts for the home.

With my new niece in town, my eyes were immediately drawn to the baby items:

I almost want to curl up myself and take a nap in that soft little baby cocoon! Perfect for photos or even swaddle time. And who doesn't love a pom pom hat on a little one?!

If there aren't any babies on your Christmas list, then think about who else you'd like to keep warm this winter! Love these cowls:

You'll need some cute new jewelry to go with your winter weather accessories!


Aren't the cotton dishcloths pretty? Maybe I'd enjoy washing dishes more if I had pretty stuff at the sink....


And, finally, my favorite thing...

Starbucks? Good. Reusable Coffee Cozie? Good. What's not to love, really?

The idea that I could run out to the 'Bucks with one of those bad boys around my wrist and then swap it to keep my coffee warm just makes me giddy. An accessory for my coffee...I loves it!

And I hope you love it too, because Nadir is giving away a $15 Gift Certificate to her shop along with a free Reusable Coffee Cozie in your choice of available colors!

Here's how you can enter:
1. (Mandatory to enter) Visit Stitch Sense Designs and leave me a comment here with the name of your favorite item.
FOR ADDITIONAL ENTRIES YOU CAN-
2. Tweet this Giveaway.
3. "Like" Stitch Sense Designs on Facebook OR link to this Giveaway on Facebook.
4. Link up a valid post to my Weekend Bloggy Reading party this weekend for an automatic entry. (party button code is below)

Please leave a separate comment for each entry. Giveaway open to US residents until 10 pm on Sunday, November 14th.

See you tomorrow for Weekend Bloggy Reading. I have some great links to share!
Weekend Bloggy Reading



Silhouette Product Giveaway Winner

*The winner of the Silhouette Product Giveaway was #83, Kendra from Domestic Princess in Training.

Guess what?

You can still cash in with Silhouette! You can get 25% off of all Silhouette Accessories by entering the code SERENITY. Offer ends on November 13th. Head over to shop Silhouette today!

I'll be back later with an interview and Giveaway from Stitch Sense Designs.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

The Babysitters Club

FOR HIRE: Experienced Babysitter


Comes with trusty assistant.


Licensed in use of Nick Jr., Fisher Price accessories, etc.


Will travel.


Cuddle time included.

Will work for "some monies" or large quantities of cookies.

Leave a comment here if interested....

{Natalie is ready to advertise her services as a sitter after discovering her newfound gift with babies. My sister brought baby Rowan to visit us for the first time! There is some jealousy over the new niece, I won't lie. But they are enjoying singing to the baby, fighting over who will hold the bottle, thrusting toys into her hands, and asking me when are we please getting a brother. Umm...right....}

Hope you'll come back tomorrow to see what Stitch Sense Designs is giving away!

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