Saturday, June 18, 2011

Highlighted Weekend Links-- Share Your Best Post!

Happy Saturday! I hope you're enjoying your weekend. Please pop in to link up YOUR best post of the week at my Weekend Bloggy Reading party. Open for new links until Sunday at 10 pm (ET).

All kinds of posts are welcome: We have recipes, home remedies, room makeovers, crafts, fashion advice, book reviews, and more! The code for the button is near the end of this post.

There are a lot of fabulous posts this weekend! If you haven't yet, please be sure to visit some of the other links from the party and say a quick howdy to those who have taken the time to visit you. That's how a good blog party works--lots of participation. Otherwise we just have a bunch of stagnant links, and that's no fun for anyone!

I'd also really appreciate it if you'd take the time to link back to me within your post(s)...I like to return the favor by Featuring the bloggers who follow through with good old fashioned blogging etiquette!

Keep reading to see just a few of the posts that caught my eye so far:

~Summer Living Room


~Evolution of a Bedroom


~Shower Puff Cupcake Favors

~Are you Too Busy?

~Personalized Sand Buckets


~Dry Erase Magnetic Calendar


So, what did you have up your sleeve this week? Come by and share it with us here! Be sure to check out some of the other bloggers' work too. Here's the button in case you'd rather use that than a link back.
Weekend Bloggy Reading


I'm working at commenting as well as balancing my family and fun time this weekend...thanks for your patience!

If I've featured you, feel free to snag this button for your blog:
Featured At Serenity Now


I'll be back tomorrow with more Highlights!

Friday, June 17, 2011

::Weekend Bloggy Reading:: Link Up!

Welcome to Weekend Bloggy Reading. I hope you'll link up your best post of the week today, and maybe leave me some comment love!

All kinds of posts are welcome--recipes, crafts, funny stories, home decor, etc.; but please do not link to Etsy shops, businesses, items for sale, etc. (I have a Sponsors section, if you'd like to Advertise with me.)

Here are a few of my faves from this week:


sources listed below



~Ann Marie took a couple of Planters from the trash heap and made them beautiful again!

~Are you Blind to Your House? Visit Julia to see what I mean.

~Great How-To on Sealing Granite from Dana.

~Celebrate Father's Day in style with Amanda's Free Father's Day Printables.

~Check out Heather's creative Fabric Covered Window Cornice!

~And me? This week featured:


Time to link up your best post of the week (please take the time to include a link-back or my party button and visit some of the other participants!)

Here's the button code if you'd prefer to use that rather than a link-back:
Weekend Bloggy Reading








Party is open until 10 pm (ET) on Sunday night.

Remember that blog parties work best when bloggers participate, so if you have a chance to visit a few of the other links, you might find a new friend or two!

We don't have any big plans this weekend. I have some cleaning to do before a friend comes over on Saturday night. We have some craft planning to work on for our VBS class at the end of the month. I'm crossing my fingers that our little garden might have a green bell pepper or two for me soon!

What are you up to this weekend?

I'll be back tomorrow with some highlights from Weekend Bloggy Reading!

(This Code is for blogs featured today!):
Featured At Serenity Now


Thursday, June 16, 2011

The Taming of the Shoes (Closet Clean Out)

Today I bring you a tale worthy of a Shakespearean tragedy. If Shakespeare ever wrote a tragedy about a closet. My closet. If you're expecting to see a closet makeover like Kate's with fancy Tory Burch bags like Megan's, you will be sorely disappointed. But if you came to see the world's narrowest 1970s closet with lots of shoes piled up in a big heap, I am the blogger for you!

I often wonder if people in the 1970s used closets, and if they did, what did they use them for? Our master bedroom closet is so long and narrow that it would be perfect for storing surf boards. It is so difficult to reach items on the far ends that I put things back there I won't ever need again. Like my size 6 sun dress from 2001.


It is very narrow and dark and scary back there. For all I know, a pack of trolls could be living back there, waiting for me to stick my arm in there. That is why I avoid the closet at all costs. That is why my shoes started to pile up.

And also maybe because I am lazy.
























Please do not judge me. I already judge myself enough. And also so does T with his stupid neatly lined up shoes (PS. He only has like 4 pair anyways and he also organized them a few days ago)

When he threatened to throw away my shoes if I didn't do something about the mess, the fear of losing my favorite hot pink pumps whipped me into a frenzy.

I'm not sure if I told you this before, but our closet pretty much stinks. I have some wire shelves that I use for shoes when I am feeling inspired. The doors are the folding kind, so I can't hang anything on them. I usually shove the out of season shoes onto the shelf in the troll infested area of the closet. The current season's shoes get to reside in the most visible area. Which is great except they were all visible.

I started by pulling all of my shoes out and making little shoe stations. I had a Donate pile, a trash pile, a pile for Spring/Summer, and a pile for Fall/Winter.

When I was finished sorting, I had at least 15 pairs of shoes in the donate pile and probably 10 to 15 in the trash pile. And I was left with this:
























Once each shoe had a mate, I stored the Winter shoes back with the trolls, who am I sure were grateful.


The Spring shoes got the same treatment, and seeing them so nicely lined up inspired me to pillage the closet for clothes that are no longer in style or I have no hope of ever fitting into again don't fit right now.


I ended up with this pile of clothes to donate, and that's before I went through my dresser drawers and pulled out another 10 to 20 items!























Because I have a lovely pile of clothes downstairs waiting to be ironed, I had plenty of hangers leftover. The wire ones went into a pile to be trashed.


"No wire hangers, ever!" (name that quote)

Finally....

Oh my word, y'all, the closet door can close!

Oh my word, y'all, it needs a makeover! This is the one room in the entire house that has never been painted. I'm sure you didn't notice.

So, I hope you'll forgive me for sharing this trashy corner of my life today. I know it wasn't ground breaking. There was no fancy stenciling or vinyl or homemade pendant lighting involved.

Just a real girl with a real closet and a real shoe problem.

I have tamed the shoes!

{What needs taming in your house?}

I hope you'll come back tomorrow to link up YOUR best post of the week to Weekend Bloggy Reading. Recipes, crafts, home decor, book reviews, funny stories, you name it. Come prepared to showcase your blog and find some great weekend reads.
Weekend Bloggy Reading



*Crafterminds.com featured an older post of mine about Being a Balanced Blogger today. I hope you'll check it out and leave me some comment love!*

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

The Graduate

We jumped into summer so quickly that I completely forgot to share pictures from Natalie's preschool graduation with you all.

The star of the day even agreed to being photographed by her mommy before the big event:

Her daddy was not happy to see his girl holding hands with a BOY as the classes marched down the sanctuary aisle:

(sorry for the blur. preschoolers march fast!)

The audience was treated to a rollicking rendition of "Who is the King of the Universe" (complete with monkey sounds) and "This Little Light of Mine," along with other hits.























Then it was time for the presentation of the diplomas. It took awhile, but I was happy that they gave each child a moment on the stage alone to shine. Some shone longer than others.























We kept Michaela Byrd entertained with a steady supply of sugar. No complaints there.

The graduates and their families were treated to cake and punch afterwards.























A nice photo opp with two of Natalie's very bestest girls.




I didn't find myself in emotional turmoil during the graduation ceremony because Natalie will be attending the half day kindergarten program at the same school next year. She's excited to show Michaela Byrd the ropes of preschool!

I can't believe how much that sweet face has changed since her first year of preschool!























For now, we're enjoying our summer, getting some things on my to-do list completed, and trying to stay sane. Once I cull through about 487 ballet recital photos, I can post about that too.

{Has your summer started off on the right foot?}

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Blogging Myth #1: If You Blog It, They Will Come

Welcome to the first post in my new series for bloggers, Blogging Myths. Over the next few weeks, we're going to take a look at some of the common misconceptions that bloggers (and readers!) have about blogging. If you're interesting in growing your blog, I hope you'll stick around!
Let's start off, shall we?

Myth #1: If You Blog It, They Will Come

I started my blog in early 2008. It was an inconsistent smattering of posts written in an effort to regain some of the brain function I lost during the day while caring for a newborn and a two year old. As I became more interested in blogging, I would gaze at the little Followers box on my sidebar and wonder if anyone would ever want to read my posts.

I mistakenly assumed that readers would eventually stumble upon this little corner of the web and instantly become enthralled with my ramblings and want to devote hours of their day to chuckling over my musings.

Content is king, but it can't sustain a blog on its own.
Blogging Myths Series at Serenity Now


Unless you have a preexisting blog for built-in promotion of the new one, or a relative who blogs and wants to promote you, automatic audiences are hard to come by. I don't know of any blog that exists solely on fabulous content. We all need ways to boost traffic beyond really good blog posts, right?

How do you go from a blog with solid, consistent content and no readers to a blog with solid, consistent content and regular readers?
  • First and foremost, remember that most blogs take months and sometimes a few years to establish themselves. 
Being patient is important when you start a blog. Sure, there are some bloggers whose sites seem to take off within a matter of weeks. Remember that they are the exception, not the rule.

Sarah at Thrifty Decor Chick recently reminded her readers not to get distracted by The Numbers. It is very easy for bloggers (rookies and seasoned pros) to get caught up in playing the comparison game. There will always be someone out there who is more talented, clever, and creative. Once you make peace with that knowledge, you're on your way!
  • Networking is Key
We just wrapped up an entire blog tip series on the importance of Commenting. If you want people to know your blog is there, you have to go out and make some friends. Find a new blog, read a few posts, and start surfing through people's Blog Rolls (usually on a blog's sidebar--it's a list of blogs that person enjoys reading). Comment on posts you enjoy.

Utilize link parties, but in moderation. Crafterminds.com hosted a Tweetchat the other day that would be highly informative for anyone who regularly links to blog parties.

The basic gist of link parties? Remember your manners: read through the hostesses' post to make sure you understand the guidelines, link back, visit some of the other links, thank the hostess (blog parties are a lot of work to put on!), and don't overexpose your blog by linking the same post to 23 parties. Participating by visiting around and leaving comments is what will ultimately bring loyal readers.
  • Social Media is Your Friend
When used correctly (don't let it become a time suck!), social media can bring a lot of traffic to those posts you are so proud of. The two biggies?

Facebook: Start out with a Facebook fan page for your blog and "suggest" it to your friends. If you engage with your fans and link to your posts each day, you'll find some new visitors!

Twitter: Twitter is also a great way to quickly link to your post for friends and fans. Other bloggers are quick to "Retweet" your links to their own Followers, which opens up more possibilities. I also love the fun, quick interaction between bloggers on Twitter.
  • Submissions to larger blogs
If you have some solid content under your belt, consider submitting a link or two to some larger blogs who accept applications for guest posts and/or features. Be sure you have enough on your site to keep visitors interested and clicking around.

Many of you know that I team up with Kate over at Centsational Girl every other week to feature the "Best of the Blogosphere." We review submissions via email, and I thought I'd share a few quick tips for submitting your work to another blogger:

1. Include a quick message with your submission. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than opening an email and all you see is a link. Is it spam? Is it a shop? Is it a blog? Help the blogger out by quickly introducing yourself, explaining a little bit about the link you are submitting, and thanking her for her time.

2. Don't go overboard with the links. Choose one or two projects that are complete, have good photos, and are well written.


The truth is, you can have excellent content, beautiful projects, well written posts, and a hot profile picture--but if your blog is just sitting there all by its lonesome, it's going to be a long road to growing a readership.

By building a network of blogging buddies, promoting your work through social media, and looking for opportunities to share your projects on other sites, you can encourage traffic for your site and be on your way to growing a loyal group of readers!

Hope you'll join me next week to check out Myth #2! (You can click here to see all of the links for this series)

{How do you encourage visits to your blog?}

Monday, June 13, 2011

Chocolate Picnic Cake

Summer is always billed as a slow, relaxing season. Anyone who stays home with little kids all day knows otherwise. A mom's summer days are filled with entertaining bored kids, finding lost flip flops, chauffeuring littles ones to VBS, parks, pools, and playdates; and generally trying to hold onto her sanity.

That's why I like to rely on simple, tried-and-true recipes for those days that I'm just too worn out to cook something from scratch for the 15th neighborhood barbecue of the week. My recipe for Chocolate Picnic Cake fits the bill...it's one of the easiest recipes I've tried and it satisfies the chocaholic chocolate lover in me.



Chocolate Picnic Cake
from Southern Living Cooking School, 2004

Cake Ingredients:


1 box dark chocolate fudge cake mix
1 cup mayonnaisse (sorry, no Miracle Whip!)
1 cup water
3 large eggs
1 tsp. ground cinnamon (optional, but I highly recommend it)
Cola Frosting (recipe below)

1. Grease and flour a 13 x 9 baking pan. Beat the first 4 ingredients (and the cinnamon, if desired) at low speed with an electric mixer 40 to 45 seconds or until combined. Beat at medium speed 2 minutes or until smooth, stopping to scrape down the sides. Pour batter into prepared baking pan.


















2. Bake at 350 degrees F for 30 minutes (35 if you use a glass baking dish), or until a wooden toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Cool 10 minutes. Spread Cola frosting over warm cake.

Cola Frosting
1/2 cup butter or margarine
6 T Cola soft drink (do not substitute diet cola!)
3 T unsweetened cocoa
1 (16 oz.) pkg. powdered sugar
1 t. vanilla extract

Bring first 3 ingredients to a boil in a saucepan over medium  heat, stirring until butter melts. Remove from heat. Stir in sugar and vanilla until smooth.


















Note: I got distracted by the rumble over the Barbies in the other room and accidentally used two sticks of butter, as you can see from the photos. I was able to fix my mistake by toying with the recipe, but don't follow in my footsteps. My icing isn't as smooth as can be (you can see that the powdered sugar didn't dissolve all the way), but when you have two small helpers in the kitchen, perfection isn't always an option!

This is an all-around picnic crowd pleaser, even if it contains a few unconventional ingredients! My husband, whose picky eating habits are famous, devoured a piece or three after getting over the idea of adding mayo to a cake mix.



Linking to Centsational Girl for the BBQ and Picnic Ideas party.

Join me tomorrow for Session #1 in my new Blogging Myths series for bloggers!


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JennyandTeddy Crochet Patterns Winners!

Congratulations to the two winners of last weekend's Giveaway from JennyandTeddy!

The first winner is Joy from Joyarna Knitblog. The second winner is Rebecca of This Present Life. Ladies, please email me at amandaserenitynow{at}gmail{dot}com by Wednesday at 5 pm. I'll get you in touch with Jane to choose your patterns!

Back in a bit with a yummy picnic dessert recipe!
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